What else could go wrong?

So I'd been trying to induce my AF to begin my first cycle of clomid... after almost 10 months of being unsuccessful in getting my AF I dropped some more weight (20 lbs to be exact) and I got a very light AF in March, 28 days later it came again (Surprised!) on 4/18 I began taking Clomid on day 5 and just as I was going for a follow-up sono I get a call from my ob/gyn's office saying my Doctor had suffered major injuries in a car accident and all appointments were being cancelled. I was told to begin BMS on day 11 (assuming I was ovulating) and we did, almost every other day until we had a death in the family and my DH was in & out and our every other day BMS was interupted. My question is, When should I start testing because I have breast tenderness, no bleeding or spotting but feel fatigued. I am trying to stay very optimistic but I kind of feel as if we did not have enough BMS. I'm currently looking for a new OB/GYN but until then this will be my only clomid cycle :( I'm frustrated and feel as if the odds are stacked up against us.